Don't rush into assumption
THE TRAGEDY OF ASSUMPTION A few days ago, I went to an event, a house-warming ceremony. When I entered the compound, I saw some elders I knew sitting in one corner. I went up to them and started to greet them one after the other. I shook their hands, even with the ones I didn't know until I got to one man. I didn't know him and when I extended my hand, he ignored it. After a few seconds, I withdrew the hand. I felt very embarrassed and angry. Embarrassed for myself and angry at the man. What was he feeling like, I thought. All those other men accepted my greeting, older men even. And to my knowledge, I hadn't done anything wrong. I gave him a very scornful look, greeted the remaining men and went to take a seat. Now, even after I sat down, I was still pissed. I kept stealing glances at the man to see how he would react to other people. Then I saw it... He was blind! His eyes were open, but he couldn't see at all! The other people who came to greet him had ...